Monday, November 24, 2008

World AIDS Day: 6,000 reasons to act-Dec. 1st

World AIDS Day: 6,000 reasons to act- December 1st

Today, like every day, around 6,000 children worldwide will lose a parent because of AIDS, the greatest humanitarian crisis of our time. November 2008By Rachael Boyer, World Vision U.S.
Kombo, who lives in southern Kenya, puts a face on the impact of the global AIDS crisis. His father died when he was too young to remember it, and the devastating disease soon took his mother, too. Remember children like Kombo on this World AIDS Day, Dec. 1.Photo ©2007 Robert Coronado/World Vision There are 6,000 reasons for everyone to do something this Dec. 1 in honor of World AIDS Day — and each reason has a heartbreaking story and a name, like Kombo.

Kombo's story
His friends call it the "big disease" — the mysterious virus spreading along the road that cuts through Kombo's village in southern Kenya. This road is often called the "AIDS Highway."Kombo's father died years ago when he was too young to remember. Soon, the big disease returned for Kombo's mother. She tried to hide the telltale signs of illness — the mysterious rash on her skin, or the sores in her mouth that would not heal. But after a while, she was too weak even to get out of bed.Kombo used to lie next to his mother at night, reassured by the sound of her breathing. One night, however, Kombo woke to find that she had passed away.After his mother died, Kombo's grandmother Sophia took him in. But life did not return to normal. Some people kept their distance, as if they were afraid of him. But Kombo is not alone in his challenges. With the support of his sponsor, World Vision helps ensure that Kombo has access to life's basic necessities like education, health care, nutritious food, and clean water.
'What are we going to do about it?'

World AIDS Day is Dec. 1
Visit our World AIDS Day page for more information about World Vision's work against the AIDS crisis and ways you can get involved.
Speak out for AIDS-affected children. Urge Congress to continue and increase the U.S. contribution to the fight against global HIV and AIDS.
Sponsor a HopeChild in a community affected by the AIDS crisis.
Donate now to help World Vision provide care for children and families affected by HIV and AIDS, including provision for basic needs, prevention education, home-based care, testing, and more.
Kombo's story represents just one among the 6,000 children every day who lose a mother, father, or both parents to AIDS, joining the 15 million children worldwide who have already been orphaned by this devastating disease.*Although Africa has received a lot of press attention regarding the AIDS issue, millions of children in India and China have also lost one or both parents to AIDS — and now the pandemic is beginning to explode in Russia, and threatens to reverse decades of development work in Latin America."AIDS is not just another problem on the world's to-do list. This crisis calls for the Church of Jesus Christ to rise to the occasion," says Richard Stearns, president of World Vision U.S. "The question hangs in the air: 'What are we going to do about it?'"What are you going to do about it?

Remember KomboAlthough 6,000 is a daunting daily number, it's critical to remember that each new orphan has a unique story, like Kombo. AIDS is the greatest humanitarian crisis in the world today, and fighting it requires collective action and perseverance.But whatever you do, do something for children like Kombo. What if you had lost one or both of your parents because of AIDS? What if your children lost you?

* World Vision uses the United Nations definition of an 'orphan' as a child under 18 who has lost one or both parents to the AIDS pandemic. When a child loses one parent to AIDS, the remaining parent may be infected with HIV as well, or cannot sufficiently care for the family without significant assistance.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Next year in East London

Top 2 Sophumelela
Bottom 3 from the Sunshine Place

Tonight I fly back to Cape Town after spending the past three weeks here in East London. It has been a lot of ups and downs in trying to figure out if this where I'm suppose to be next year and finish my time in South Africa. I appreicate your prayers and walking alongside me during this time of transition.

My first couple weeks here were a little frustrating, though I enjoyed my time in the schools and talking with the students and challenging some of the myths they have about the US.

This this past week, I had the opportunity to meet Marnieni, the person in charge of Sunshine Place, the children's home across the street from the YFC building. Currently, they have 17 children that are staying there. Ranging in ages from 4 months to 17 years old. They are currently in the process of building a new home that will be next door to the child welfare office and having one two children per room, so there is more privacy for the children. Also, this will give them the chance to meet the needs of the children on a more structured basis and able to keep more of any eye on them, though it's a two year process by the time the move happens. Most of the children who are at the home are there because their home life was an unsafe environment and the child welfare services have stepped in for the safety of the child. Their goal is to eventually to have that child move back into the community or with another relative and not stay permanently in the home, though unfortunately that hasn't always been the case. I would be involved with assisting the children with their homework from 3-5pm on a regular basis and will be doing counseling with children. This is a great way for me to give back to the community and empower the generation of our future.

Today, I had the opportunity to visit, Sophumelela (which is a Xhosa word meaning we will succeed). Sophumelela receives all their funding through PEPFAR (President Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief) which is supported through the US. Sophumelela is part of a local Baptist church here in East London, whose goal is to meet the needs of the whole person and not just the AIDS part. Sophumelela emcompasses a lot of aspects: from a local daycare facility (Little Sparklers) for HIV+ children or whose parents are HIV+, to a job creation program for men and women, where the men learn labor skills and the women learn beading, sewning, etc., to a clinic and handing out ARV medication to patients within the community. Sophumelela opened its doors to the public in December 2004, since then it has reached over 3,000 people and currently has over 800 people they serve on a regular basis. The patient can meet with a dietician, the doctor, receive counseling and also is assigned a mentor who will travel on a weekly basis to their community where they stay and make sure that they are moving forward within their community and that their needs are being met. Each mentor serves up to 30 people. I'm not sure where my involvement will be, but I know they are excited about me transferring to the East London area and are excited about having me volunteer my time there. At the moment, they talked about me getting involved with counseling and also AIDS/HIV+ education within the schools and I would like to spend some of my time working along the teachers in the daycare facility. I plan on staying in contact with Siya, one of the local chaplains, who also gave me the tour today. Their website is www.fightingaidsinafrica.co.za.

I'm scheduled to meet with Mike, the director for the East London branch, before I leave today. Then I will have a better understanding on where things stand, but I have to say that at the moment I am 90% confident about transferring here to the East London branch. I have more peace about the whole thing and more ready to make the leap
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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Lion Park and Braai at Eastern Beach in East London



I had a great time at the Lion Park. As you can see, they are known for their white lions and various other animals. And then it was time for a lot of meat at the braai spot. It was a great way to spend my last weekend in East London.

Monday, November 10, 2008

My HEART & DESIRE Exposed

I have been doing a lot of thinking since Mike, the director in East London, and me had our talk. In all honesty, the peace and excitment of spending next year here in East London has left and I don't believe this is where I am to be. Granted, that staying here would be a lot of my other originals goals that I made would not happen and it would be like starting over from scratch again. I have to admit there is a part of me that's not ready to start over again and put some of those goals to the side and not have them happen.

So, here's what I'm proposing to Emelio, the Cape Town director, to see about transferring me to the Kylemore sight. Every since I spent time there with the US team, part of my heart was left there. I would like to get more involved within the high school and the youth groups around there. And my biggest draw is the fact that we live within the community and have the opportunity to grow and develop within that community. There is so many opportunities there and being involved in the community as a whole is definitely my heart.

I would also like to spend time at Tulbough-the orphanage that the UK group spent time at when they were here. According to them it was an unbelieveable experience.

Plus I would still like to have some of my other goals come to pass before I leave in June 2009...-Visiting the George Options branch and had talked to Laurie about coming next year to take the post-abortion class.-Visiting the kids my family are sponsoring through World Vision that are here in South Africa, one towards Lesotho and the other near Queens by East London, but I need to work on over the holidays.

I hope this isn't too much.. but I want you understand where I'm coming from.. and I can't ignore the DESIRE I have to be back in Kylemore. I hear from the youth on regular basis asking when I'm coming back and my heart aches to go back. Thanks for hearing my heart. Have an awesome week.

Friday, November 07, 2008

Trying to Figure things out- Prayers Warriors Requested

On Wed. I finally had my mtg with Mike, the director, after our long discussion, this is what we decided. I would have three main focuses during my time here. The first one will be receiving AIDs/HIV training and then I will be doing training within the schools and also counseling those facing AIDS/HIV. The second will be assisting with training the YFC staff at this office on issues they need to work on within management, leadership skills, group dynamics, constructive critism, etc and then areas of spiritual growth. The three will be doing mentoring and couseling both in the children's home across the street from the office and within in the schools were are already working in. I'm excited about these new areas of focus and I believe it will be challenging and give me areas that I can grow in and develop in. So, I'm pretty excited about it. Mike will be stepping down next year around March, so he needs to discuss it with Dusma, who will be taking over. So, now its figuring out logistics too (housing, transportation, etc). But I'm not too concerned about that.

Though, I have to admit that a ton is running through my mind since I had my talk with Mike. There's a part of me that wants to head back to Cape Town and just stay there, because it's "home" already and I have my group of friends outside of the YFC office and I have a church family, etc. I would have to start from scratch if I stay here. And some of it will be adjusting to the new leadership here. I have to say that it hasn't gone as I expected or planned and some of it I'm surprised by and unsure which direction I should be going.

I know that I want to spend time here, but I think I need to see about possibly not staying for the entire time from mid-Jan until June. Maybe for only a few months.

In all honesty, there is still a part of me that would love to serve in Kylemore for a few months and I could spend a few months here and then end back in Cape Town and at the Kylemore programme. If that is an option.

I don't need to make a decision right this minute.. I know I need to seek God's face on this and figure out what He wants me to be doing.

I appreciate your listening ear and friendship.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Update from East London

My time here in East London hasn't been quite what I expected. In all honesty, I expected to be more busy than I am. I spend most of my days at the office passing the time. I have been to two schools since I arrived. And have assisted some of the staff with other projects and things that need to get done and wrapping things up for the end of the year.

Today, I met with Taryn, who works for the child welfare services. She may be my connection into more possible programs. We talked about me getting involved with the child protection dept and being involved in their child rape cases; assisting with counseling, etc. Also, having me getting involved at the maternity ward at the local hospital, and also becoming involved at their children's home, which is across the street from the YFC offices; as far as mentoring the kids, especially the teen girls. So, I feel very positive about my mtg with her.

The last week that I'm here, Taren and I are going to the maternity ward to check things out and I have a mtg with the lady in charge of the children's home tomorrow. Mike, the director for East London and Port Elizabeth, hopes to meet with me today or tomorrow. The problem is that most of the students are writing exams this week and next, so it's hard to get into the schools. Because when they are not writing they are home studying. Plus Mike is working two jobs, here and the church, so he's always on the go. Though, I'm hoping to spend part of next week in Port Elizabeth, which is about 3 hours from here along the coast line towards the west. Zandi, the lady I stayed with in the Xhosa village last time I was here in 2006, who is now the center director for PE wants me to come and spend sometime at their office and Mike and Zena are heading that direction next week anyway for a mtg, so I'm hoping to tag along and spend sometime there.

Please continue to keep my time here in your prayers. I still believe that I am here for a reason and purpose and even though it hasn't gone as I anticipated, I don't regret my time here.

Thank you for all your prayers.

Friday, October 03, 2008

THANK YOU !!!!

Thank you for your prayers and encouraging emails. This past weekend was a huge growing experience with money being stolen from my account and the ATM scandal.

Your prayers and encouraging words helped me through this difficult time. They meant more to me than words can see. I believe it assisted me in staying calm and at peace these past days as I got all the necessary paperwork together to send to my bank back in the US. Plus I know your prayers assisted getting a copy of the police report and having my friend, Joke's company, assist me by allowing me to make phones calls and send faxes to the states in helping the process go smoothier and quicker.

The paperwork is all in the mail and should arrive in the US on Monday, Oct. 6th. Please join me in continuing to pray that everything will get processed in a timely manner so I take care of my bills here.

Thank you again for all your prayers and support.
Your Missionary in Cape Town, South Africa

Monday, September 29, 2008

General Assembly in South Africa


Celebration Night......


Sabelo, Beauty, me & Lizo Natalie & Natalie :)

Beauty & me Lauren & me Rita from Fiji & me

The tent and worship time...

Celebration night me & Soso Paul, me & Virginia (prayer partners)

Celebration Night Mavela from Swaziland & me Dickson from Mariuis & me

Emmanuel O'Chingi and his wife(African director)

General Assembly was awesome.. It was awesome to see so many nations and people coming togheter for the same reason. This year's general assembly was one of the biggest that YFC has ever had. We had between 800-1000 people present and close to 70 countries represented. I hope the pics give you a taste of this past week. Thank you for all your prayers.